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Charleston's most elite and awarded matchmaking agency


Welcome to Charleston Wine Pairings, an elite matchmaking company based in Charleston, SC. Our team, led by the esteemed matchmaker Buffie Bell Lilly, is dedicated to providing you with a discreet and tailored experience to help you find a meaningful and lasting connection with someone who shares your values and interests. We understand that finding a life partner is a personal and sensitive matter, and we are committed to ensuring that your experience with us is respectful and professional. Our goal is to help you navigate the world of dating and find your perfect match. Thank you for considering Charleston Wine Pairings for your matchmaking needs.

married match by Buffie


years of experience


certified matchmaker through the National Matchmaking Institute in New York City

An exciting twist on dating in the Lowcountry.


Welcome to Charleston Wine Pairings, where love and wine come together in perfect harmony. Founded by the esteemed Buffie Bell Lily, a true Charleston native and renowned elite matchmaker, we are dedicated to helping you find your perfect life partner.

With a track record of successfully matching and marrying 39 couples (and counting), Buffie understands that dating in the South is a unique experience unlike anywhere else in the world. As a genuine and authentic Southern woman, she brings her personable skills and deep understanding of Southern culture to every match she makes.

At Charleston Wine Pairings, we believe that love knows no boundaries. We embrace diversity and celebrate all forms of love. Whether you're looking for a traditional relationship or a non-traditional partnership, we are here to support you on your journey.

Buffie's ability to connect with her clients on a personal level sets her apart from other matchmakers. She takes the time to truly understand your desires, values, and aspirations, ensuring that each match is tailored to your specific needs. With her guidance and expertise, you can trust that you'll be introduced to potential partners who share your vision for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

But Charleston Wine Pairings is not just about finding love; it's about creating unforgettable experiences. As the name suggests, we believe that wine plays a vital role in fostering connections and creating memorable moments. Our wine pairing events and tastings provide the perfect opportunity to meet like-minded individuals in a relaxed and enjoyable setting.

So, if you're ready to embark on a journey of love and companionship, let Charleston Wine Pairings be your guide. With Buffie's expertise and our commitment to creating meaningful connections, we are confident that we can help you find the love you've been searching for. Love is love, and we're here to make it happen. Cheers to a lifetime of happiness!

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